mood: hungry
listening to: Dave Brubeck
reading: dA comment
Ok my lovesick puppy period is over (thanks GOD!) and still don’t know what cause it, is it because PMS? or simply because I’m missing him (omg GOD forbid!)? Anyway whatever the reason is, it’s over! And please pray I won’t vomit on their wedding ceremony. period.
Been thinking lately that people nowadays is too easy to say I Love You. Ok what love is? This is a very old question, maybe Eve been asked herself if Adam love her or because she was the only woman in the world so he had not many choice. Same question apply here, if you already have a bf/gf and then you can going around the world and see many people, would you still choose her/his? Or you’ll left him/her for other choice??
We’re living in a world with population over 6,602,224,175 people, it looks so odd if you can only attracted to one people right? And that’s make my definition of love is complete. This is just my little thought so you allowed to agree or disagree with it.
Love is 60% chemistry and 40% commitment. Chemistry is when you meet someone and suddenly you feel at ease with him/her. You can talk for hours or simply you enjoy watching him/her in all situation. It doesn’t need a scientist to know you like someone or not, is just something you know yourself. And commitment is when you meet that someone and you say you like him/her and then you have a relationship. Commitment is when you stand for your choice, and don’t care about the other 6,602,224,174. It’s like a promise made only from word and faith, no punishment if you break the promise.
And IF you already pass all the test, when you meet other temptation and you can pass it. I believe if you say that’s LOVE. Real love is not that easy, it’s not like you meet a girl on reality show and then suddenly you say I love you. Or when you break up with someone and then you turn to a stalker, that’s not love either, that’s obsession. Be careful, love – lust – obsession are sisters, they have the same parents, and sometimes it’s not easy to separate them.
And maybe one day I’m ready to commit, that’s the hard one, right? Finding chemistry is like a child’s game comparing to commitment. When you ready to live for two and not just for yourself.
